Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Blocked me

Three months before :
One of my blog readers sent a friend request to me on a social networking site. I replied that it was only for my close friends and relatives. I apologised her for not accepting it. She said its ok and withdrew her friend’s request.

Yesterday, I was surprised to notice that she blocked me on that site.

I can’t understand why she block me after three months??!??

23 comments:

  1. rejection is a wound not easily healed?

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  2. A) Intentionally: An impulsive reaction after it festered.

    B) Un-intentionally: Coincidence, she used an IP-blocker because of another reason / cause. Or a typo, misspelling.

    Simply ask.

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  3. Perhaps she felt you wanted to be an acquaintance because you rejected her offer and that her site is reserved for close friends and relatives.

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  5. hahaha :)

    that's because simple she deleted her social networking sites' account for several other reasons.. since you're not regular on her other blog you are unaware of this :)

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  6. May be she is feeling the pain of rejection:)

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  7. I wouldn't be surprised, it is reciprocal.

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  8. LAte reaction.. probably hoping you might give in .. but you did not so in rejection they do whats best ... anger it seems but then anger is never good .. there LOSS...

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  9. You rejected her. Now she wants a chance to say no to you . So she deletes you. Then she will expect you to send a request, and then she will say no. EOJ

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  10. wow..!! that girl is jealous..!! and if she reads this post and the comments pouring in, she is definitely gonna b on fire...

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  11. Tit for tat! She wanted to revenge you, maybe!

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  12. i think revenge... but why did she do that after a long time! may be i think it was still hurting her...

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  13. ego maybe ? rejection ?

    or just wanting to isolate herself ?

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  14. The comments flowing in are amazing :)

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  15. One of my followers withdrew themselves last week. I don't know who, though! It is not a happy feeling. It happens, we have to take it in our stride, Shubham.

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  16. Chandrika,

    Some persons are stupidly and childishly vindicative.

    Take care

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  17. may be she felt any relationship is two ways. one can't give without acknowledgement or acceptance...(/i consider that to be narrow view of life with expectations)

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