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Saturday, September 11, 2010

Friend's family life

“Do not interfere in MY family life, Chandrika.” My friend whose family problem I was trying to solve told me.
"Sorry. I thought it was OUR family." I said.

Do we need friends to say ‘hi’ and ‘bye’, to do parties and have fun or to solve the complicated family and financial problems?

16 comments:

  1. Your answer was very thoughtful

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  2. People value privacy at all levels. Unless they discuss their problems with us, and ask for our advise, we can go ahead to help them. If there is no move whatsoever from them, then we should just remain quiet. Otherwise, it will be considered an intrusion of privacy.....I opined thus.

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  3. I think ..Chandrika ur offending more people these days...what happened Dear?
    before you mentioned somebody had put a blocker for you to visit her blog now somebody stopped you for givin Advice...
    I think I agree with the comment above.

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  4. We need to use the word "friend" carefull.

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  5. जमाना बदल रहा है दोस्ती भी अपना अर्थ बदल रहा है। कहना मुहाल है कि क्या किया जाए। अगर ऐसी कोई बात कहता है तो अच्छा है कि चलो पता तो चला कि ये मुझे कितना अपना समझता है। इससे बेहतर है कि आदमी अकेले ही रहे।

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  6. There are certain issues in the family which must be left to them for sorting out.

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  7. I also feel that frineds and family should be well meaniong who care about our problems also and give us right perspective.

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  8. yah ur correct chandrika as a friend u have right to do so , but everyperson has their personal life u should not creep into one's personal life ,infact u should support ur friend in hardtimes by giving a good support

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  9. If your speaking about her family problem was because she hinted at its existence earlier, then I guess you were OK to talk . Else I think you should stay away.

    Life isnt always like Facebook. Update the status and move on.

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  10. Again, it depends..We can give our advice to the closest ones and restrict ourselves to Hi and Bye with the others...

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  11. friends are family thats what i beleive But if they say that then not worth being friends I would say ...

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  12. Happy Ganesha Chaturthi to you and your family. Hope Lord Ganesha brings happiness and peace in your life.
    It depends to whom we can give advice and suggestion as people may take in different way.
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  13. u need friends for everything..They should be ur life...else better be strangers.

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  14. There is a time and a way to give advice. :)

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  15. obviously, in stress.. we alienate the people who we love the most..

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  16. @ everyone : Thanks a million! :) Special thanks to cyclopseven, Ugich, nona and iamyuva.

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