“Stay away from my blog, Chandrika.” Mr. ‘R’ shouted on me.
I was deeply hurt as I was suggesting improvements for his blog and wanted his blog to be a popular one.
After that I stopped visiting his blog and started writing on my blog. Now one day, he silently visited my blog.
Should I say “Stay away from my blog” or “Thanks for reading my posts.” ?
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That is impolite, you should never do!!
ReplyDeleteYou wrote:
ReplyDelete"Now one day, he silently visited my blog"
My opinion: Stay Silent!
If I were you,I would ignore him/her
ReplyDeletestart on a new note if possible!
ReplyDeleteWhoever he is, he has a big ego..!
ReplyDeleteIgnore him!!
Post a single smiley as a comment on his blog.
ReplyDeleteI don't want you to be silent darling. Just go on and say "I will not ask you to stay away from my blog AS YOU DID"...that's the punch for him!
ReplyDeleteSome people should just need such a treatment to make them realise!
Once again I'll differ with everyone who've commented above... For two reasons...
ReplyDelete1. you should not have felt hurt... coz some people want things to be done by themselves.. and dont like interference from others even if they mean good...
2. The silent visit he paid you may not mean anything.... It could be just another visit to all the blogs the person knew about.. Looking to improve his own blogs maybe... And so if you say any of the things above... It may hurt him.. and mind you... both of the things can hurt... Lot of people forget that sweet words hurt as bad as strong ones. And all depends on how the other person takes them...
So my advice.. why go out of your way to notice such small things.. Post blogs for satisfaction and read comments for improvements... Why the rest of effort??
And ya forgot to clarify... By all the above I don't mean that u shud ignore him... No!! But remain natural with them... If he'll feel comfortable some day maybe he'll ask you himself... My policy... Be good to everyone around!! And don't ask for a return favor... :)
ReplyDeleteSweetie...then there will be no difference between your and her attitude..
ReplyDeleteIGNORE!
the fruits of revenge could be sweet sometimes..
ReplyDeleteDearie,
ReplyDeleteJust ignore him.
You shouldn't miss the chance to say, "Thanks for reading my posts." That'll be the sweetest insult...
ReplyDeletenice post.....
ReplyDeleteA Silent Silence : Shamma jali sirf ek raat..(शम्मा जली सिर्फ एक रात..)
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Hahaha, so he was curious to see what you write! Be happy, Chandrika!
ReplyDeleteYou should be happy, you are getting popular..BTW whata dvice you give for getting popularity:)
ReplyDelete"Silently visited"?
ReplyDeleteHe seemingly expects no reaction, so why disappoint the man?
hello hello stranger... am back after a break...
ReplyDeleteto answer your question... well... as long as he is silent... no harm in thanking him :)
Gosh !!!
ReplyDeleteI ought to be careful with you or might end up on ur posts ;)
anyways a candid reaction might suffice to ur silent friend :)
You should say "Thanks for reading my posts!"
ReplyDeletethink about ur posts alone !!
ReplyDeleteBe positive..welcome him. That's life. If you think broad, you can achieve broader things in life.
ReplyDeleteYou just made a statement. Now wait and watch.
ReplyDeletereciprocate love not hate..
ReplyDeleteConsidering the kind of way you write your posts, it seems you are a good person at heart. You tried to help him with his blog.
ReplyDeleteThe best option is, never say nothing.
Let him start if he wants to restart communications with you.
People shouldn't lose self-respect coz value of oneself will be lost.
:-)
@ everyone : Thanks a million for ur wonderful suggestions. :) And special thanks to silent visitor. :)
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