Tuesday, July 31, 2012

You n situations

I read these lines somewhere on net.

Difficult and sorrowful situations and experiences come to all in life. In the process of experiencing them, some people become bitter, some better, some weaker, some stronger. 
What YOU become depends on YOU, not on the situation. 

What are your views on this?


  1. Chandrika,

    It is absolutely right.

    Take care

  2. Basically Yes, but not always.
    There are situations (constellations, how ever you may call it) that "make" one "weaker" and "worse".
    There are situations that leave a person bitter and "weak", and there are decisions that make one "worse".

    See that it is all relative. Related to what?
    The "you" in question can try all and everything, there is no safety. Only a promise.

    And it is not right to shove all what may be understood as "bad" to the self: A human being is first of all a depending being. Being the master of my own fate is a nice idea, but I am weak, full of fear, and alone.

    It's like throwing a die ... in any sense.